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Personal Qualities and
Dispositions
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- Ready to seek out variety, change and stimulation in his/her life
- Avoids safe and predictable environments
- Pushes self into uncomfortable and ambiguous situations from which s/he can learn
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- Conscious that his/her own behaviour may be strange and/or difficult for others to understand or accept
- Sensitive to how his/her own communication and behaviour is interpreted by others
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- Positively accepts behaviour and ideas that are very different from his/her own
- Accepting of people as they are and does not try to change them
- At ease with those who hold different views or values
- Looks for the best in others, and forgives any faux pas quickly and easily
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- Willing to learn a wide range of behaviour and communication patterns
- Copies other people’s behaviour/communication in order to fit in or make others feel more comfortable
- Experiments with different ways of behaving and communicating to find those that are most acceptable and most successful
- Adapts behaviour and modifies judgements to suit the circumstances
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- Guided by a well defined set of values and beliefs
- Possesses personal toughness that enables maintenance of a sense of focus in difficult situations
- Self-disciplined and self-reliant
- Can provide a clear sense of direction for self and others
- Committed and motivated
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- Possesses well-developed methods for dealing with stress, such as:
- Uses humour to relieve tension
- Builds local support networks
- Manages negative emotions
- Looks for something good in what is happening
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- Ready to risk making social mistakes
- Not easily embarrassed by social gaffes
- Has sufficient self-confidence to handle criticism or negative feedback
- Has optimistic outlook and bounces back quickly after setbacks
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