Worry
What is worry?
Planning and thinking ahead is something all of us do at some point, and is useful for organising tasks. When worry becomes excessive however it can have a negative impact on our mental health and our lives. When we are worried it is easy to think of the ‘worst case scenario’. Worries can be hypothetical (things we cannot control) or practical (something we can do something about).
Common symptoms of worry
Moving out of Worry
As discussed earlier we need some level of worry to help us organise and complete tasks so the purpose of worry management strategies is to get more control over the worries so it does not interfere with your day to day life. Breaking the cycle of worry is important. By keeping a record of your worries and recognising how you behave physically when you worry (you may tense your jaw or bite your nails) and emotionally (you may stop relating to people or feel worthless) you can begin to take control over your worry. Relaxation exercises can help manage the anxiety of worrying. Consider whether your worries are hypothetical (cannot change) or practical. If your worries are mostly hypothetical try using Worry time’, If your worries are mostly practical, problem solve them.
Please do watch this video which talks through the steps of worry management
Worry time
- Choose your worry time, 30 minute slot before bedtime
- Refocus – take time after you have completed worry time to relax. Try mindfulness or meditation, read a book, cook a meal, do a workout. Anything that will help to shift your focus away from worry time to the present moment.
- Capture your worries by writing them down.
- Challenge your worries by asking such questions as is there any evidence to support this? What would I say to a friend if they were feeling this way? Will this matter in 1 or 2 or 5 years from now? If I had kept on worrying about this all day, would it have changed anything?
Are there practical steps you can take to reduce the pressure you are under?
Think about sources of support for situations or tasks you find challenging.
Getting Support
- Wellbeing and Student Support are available for students at the University of Warwick: https://warwick.ac.uk/services/wss/
- Medical support and information can be obtained from GP practices or health centres.
- For more information:
- http://www.helpguide.org/articles/anxiety/how-to-stop-worrying.htm
- http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/
- http://www.mind.org.uk
- http://mindfulnessforstudents.co.uk/
- http://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/resources/infopax.cfm?Info_ID=46
Self-help references
The following references are available from the University Library either in hard copy, CD or ebooks. Most are readily available to buy either in bookshops or over the internet. There are also a limited number of books in the Learning Grid and the Bio-med Grid.
Stress-Free: Peaceful Affirmations to Relieve Anxiety and Help You Relax |
Louise L. Hay |
CD |
Emmett E. Miller |
CD | |
Sarah Brewer |
DPB | |
Martin Simmons, Peter Daw,. |
Ebook | |
Sharman |
MIND | |
Atherton |
MIND | |
Overcoming Traumatic Stress: A Self-help Guide Using Cognitive Behavioural Techniques |
Herbert, C. & Wetmore, A. |
Robinson Publishing |
Servan-Schreiber, D. |
Rodale International Ltd. | |
Frank Tallis |
Sheldon | |
Looker and Gregson |
Hodder Education | |
Mary Hartley |
Sheldon | |
Davis Robbins Eshelman and McKay |
New Harbinger | |
Leahy |
Pitkus | |
Flory |
MIND booklet |
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